Cord Cutting 

One of the first things I do before doing any kind of coaching work with people who have just come out of unhealthy relationships, is to get them to have a cord cutting session.

From an energy point of view. We all exchange energy with people. Healthy energy is exchanged between people all the time. They are like streams of chords that come and go.

Cords are strands of energy that come out of a persons aura and attach themselves to another persons auric field. Their function is to serve as an exchange of energy.

A healthy cord of attachment will feel positive, like a two way exchange, whereas a negative cord will feel like you have yourself plugged into a wall socket. The person on the other end is receiving all the energy and you on the other hand end up feeling tired and drained both emotionally and physically. We should not be feeding off other peoples energy, at the same time it is not healthy for other people to be feeding of us.

We form cords of attachment with everyone that we meet. Strong cords of attachment are created when there is significant emotional or physical contact with a person for example, relatives and partners. What many people do not realise is that when people end a relationship the cords remain intact, allowing for continuous feeding on each others emotions and anxieties.

For some reason some people are unable to break cords of attachment even when relationships are over. They may feel stuck or unable to move on. Even when clients have tried and break ties themselves if the relationship has been exceptionally toxic they may need the help of a healer to help them break ties.

I am skilled at finding the the energetic chords that have attached themselves to clients and also empowering clients to find ways to remove those cords themselves in the future. Often these negative attachments will find a way of re-attaching.

A cord cannot attach itself if there is nothing resonating with the person that kept them in the relationship in the first place. For example if you were in a relationship where you did not feel good enough; you may have well walked away but the cords remain and you may still keep on attracting those types of people.

I work with clients by disconnecting cords and then they have the opportunity to clear their underlying beliefs using voice dialogue once the cords are gone.