The Butterfly Effect

I call my style of coaching the Butterfly Effect. It is based on my own unique experiences and gifts so you too can create the Butterfly Effect in your own lives.

I will guide you so that even the smallest positive changes you make will have a cumulative effect on all those around us in all space and time dimensions. 

We all have fears. Some people fear spiders and snakes. As a child I had a fear of moths and an innate fascination of butterflies.

Our whole life's are all about balance. One belief balancing the other. For example we may have a core belief that we are powerless when in fact we are very capable.

Through out our childhood we grow up with layers and layers of different belief systems that can sometimes be hard to remove. They become part of our DNA or make-up.

As I worked through my own childhood traumas and became more conscious and aware. As I moved through the layers of fear, I started to notice I was no longer afraid of moths. In fact they started to follow me everywhere. They would sit on my computer screen while I was working. The GIFT or working through my beliefs and fears meant that I became highly intuitive and empathic.

How do we face our fears 

Well lets take a look at Butterflies

If you look at the contrast between butterflies and moths

What are two ways that butterflies and moths are different?

Butterflies are active during the day - moths are active during the night.

Butterflies fold their wings together when they rest - moths spread their wings out.

Butterflies form chrysalises - moths form cocoons

Butterflies have smooth, slim bodies and antennae with knobs -moths have fuzzy, fat bodies and feathery antennae

Butterflies are usually more brightly coloured - moths are usually dark

They are simply polar opposites of the same thing but they are also very similar. The same as Yin and Yang,

Interestingly as we face our fears we find that there is  no such thing as black and white just shades of grey in between.

Our live becomes more balanced and whole.

When I looked at the butterfly and how it relates to my own life, the symbol of the butterfly is about spiritual transformation and growth.

I noticed that as I started to balance and embrace my fears and dark side, rather than turn away from it, I started to change! In fact I started to transform. A bit like a butterfly or moth transforms from being a chrysalis into a beautiful butterfly.

The Butterfly Effect is a well known phenomenon “The phrase refers to the idea that a butterfly's wings might create tiny changes in the atmosphere that may ultimately alter the path of a tornado or delay, accelerate or even prevent the occurrence of a tornado in a certain location. The flapping wing represents a small change in the initial condition of the system, which causes a chain of events leading to large-scale alterations of events. Had the butterfly not flapped its wings, the trajectory of the system might have been vastly different”

I noticed as I started to change then the people around me started to change. My children, my friends and my family. You too can make those changes.

Butterfly Effect

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